Young men and women get intimate for mostly the same motivations, researchers say.
After exhaustively compiling a list of the 237 reasons why people have sex, researchers found that young men and women get intimate for mostly the same motivations. It is more about lust in the body than a love connection in the heart.
US college-aged men and women agree on their top reasons for having sex - they were attracted to the person, they wanted to experience physical pleasure and "it feels good", according to a peer-reviewed study in the August edition of Archives of Sexual Behaviour. Twenty of the top 25 reasons given for having sex were the same for men and women.
Expressing love and showing affection were in the top 10 for both men and women, but they did take a back seat to the clear No. 1: "I was attracted to the person."
Researchers at the University of Texas spent five years and their own money to study the overlooked "why" behind sex while others were spending their time on the "how".
"It's refuted a lot of gender stereotypes ... that men only want sex for the physical pleasure and women want love," said University of Texas clinical psychology professor Cindy Meston, the study's co-author. "That's not what I came up with in my findings."
"The more we look, the more we find similarity," said Irwin Goldstein, director of sexual medicine at Alvarado Hospital in San Diego.
Dr Goldstein, who was not part of Professor Meston's study, said the Texas research made a lot of sense and added to growing evidence that the vaunted differences in the genders might only be among people with sexual problems.
Professor Meston and colleague David Buss first questioned 444 men and women - ranging in age from 17 to 52 - to come up with a list of 237 distinct reasons people have sex. They ranged from "it's fun", which men ranked fourth and women ranked eighth to "I wanted to give someone else a sexually transmitted disease", which ranked on the bottom by women.
Once they came up with that long list, the researchers asked 1549 college students taking psychology classes to rank the reasons on a one-to-five scale on how they applied to their experiences.
"None of the gender differences are all that great," Professor Meston said. "Men were more likely to be opportunistic towards having sex, so if sex was there and available they would jump on it, somewhat more so than women. Women were more likely to have sex because they felt they needed to please their partner."
But this is among college students, when Professor Meston conceded "hormones run rampant". She predicted huge differences when older groups of people are studied. Since her study came out Tuesday, people are coming up with new reasons to have sex.
"Originally, I thought that we exhaustively compiled the list, but now I found that there should be some added," she said.
Minggu, 08 Februari 2009
Why have sex
Detect Woman Desire Passion
Majority woman wants longer time is compared with man to be angsang but once angsang, woman desire usually outwear. Several womans feels orgasm very strong, also there light, and there that experience orgasm then menerus. Important be known that woman orgasm can differ every time
It is important to know from secret angsangnya woman realize woman stimulative stage. Intimate connection must it goes on easily and polite, marking follow serve the purpose of pilot.
Woman sexual desire passion knowable with the breath change existence, with more the increasing of woman sexual desire, the breath will be faster and shallow.
If the body trembles, woman wishes for the sex is feeled smoothly, and if open his wide the thigh have wished for kelenting scrubed head penis with begin the insert has intoed vagina.
If the milk bipple ossifies upright and begin to depress the stomach, enter dnegan soft and shallow.
If he gulps the saliva water slowly begin menggerak movement penis in the vagina smoothly.
If menggerak-gerak the buttocks, so comfort incredible asa.
If sudak raise the foot and begin to pinch second the foot enter deeper, here comfort merasakannya hasn't defenced again.
If menggelinjang-gelinjang, bergeser-geser so he wishes for entering deeper again and move faster from one side or side kesisi another.
If interesting breath in to muffle the passion fluctuation and memejam strong the eye, orgasm almost mencapainya.
COITUS
As mentioned earlier, a conception can occur only inside a woman's body. Here then is the place where sperm and egg have to meet. Their meeting is usually brought about as a result of coitus. This Latin term (literally, going together) refers to the kind of sexual intercourse in which the penis is inserted into the vagina. Other words for coitus are copulation or genital intercourse. The intimate contact of the male and female sex organs during coitus can give both partners great pleasure. The pleasure mounts as their bodies move
The illustration shows the path of the sperm cells from the testicle through the vas deferens. At the end of this journey they are ready to be released through sexual activity. During coitus, the available sperm cells enter the prostate gland where they become part of the semen which is ejaculated into the vagina close to the cervix.
1. Testicle
2. Vas deferens
3. Seminal vesicle
4. Prostate
5. Urethra
6. Seminal pool
7. Cervix
to increase the mutual stimulation. Eventually, pleasure and excitement reach a climax. This climax, which provides relief and deep satisfaction, is called orgasm, and for the man it means the sudden release of his semen from his sex organs into those of the woman. This semen contains the sperm tells. Obviously, the man's orgasm is very important for human reproduction. Only during orgasm can he experience the muscular contractions inside his sex organs that are needed to discharge the semen. This sudden discharge is called ejaculation. Without ejaculation the sperm cells remain inside the man's body. However, there are some exceptions to this rule. It is not impossible for a man to release some sperm in advance of his orgasm and even if the orgasm should eventually fail to occur.
Give Pair Happiness
Touch or groping can be man unification important part and woman.
Feel hand or body of vital importance as part from mutual harmonization like the coition self. beginning stimulative manner with do it as soft as may be. begin from body part besides the sex. caress, massage and kiss, energy channel pointss stimulating at the body will help to increase the sexual passion. moment very felt stimulate stop and embrace. look at eye each with in, look at to into heart each and express to into to love both with eye each.
Continue with stimulate the breast beforehand begin from base it circle smoothly new aim the bipple. Several womans like malaxation so much and stroke rather strong, but let self that guide. also effective help to tickle, circle and suck, oftentimes be best manner arouses the passion. if putting the milk begins asa hard and lengthways so this step done truly.
stimulative furthermore part in thigh, genitals hill, and genitals lip before feel kelenting. above all manner feel it, use finger don't untimely don't too slow. taste full groan, breath swishing, tight muscle, foot at lift, and secretory sweat, smile and whittle face that change, all be good sign
at the (time) of possibility woman pair passion desire approaches the top and he wants soon enterred. don't in a hurry enter it
hold on penis impressing do entering in vagina, before putted into head rubbing penis in kelenting, this will make the passion passion soon will rise tall.
moment pair tall the passion desire visible the marking with vagina that wet wide opened, redden and a little upraised, use penis to scrub lip in vagina. if woman ready knowable pass lip and kelenti that expand and the vagina liquid overflows out. enter slowly. don't like pornographic film that pushes and interesting penis swiftly according to then enerus because here's recipe that suited for fast berejakulasi. don't put into penis in, because there willing interesting it out all this difficult will hold ejaculation of semen.
again enter slow and soft, obtrud penis left and right in vagina, on and down. then countersink and hold back temporary. now is pulling with different corner, will stimulate vagina wall. remember, has various points differs with tall sensitivity. besides depth and the direction, can also be changed speed.
if penis insides use idea to menegang head and part base it, where necessary crumple up part under penis to delay ejaculation of semen. if orgasm has approached rest. pull a little penis up to tingga the head present insides vagina. relex so that blood vessel in penis developing and make possible swop sexual energy. continue mutual embrace each other again, if ready continue to move penis out enter and screw